tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7916782536472572714.post2057353578119524588..comments2023-10-12T11:50:51.254-04:00Comments on Life in the Grateful House: May I Always Be MindfulLisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16146320008307628429noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7916782536472572714.post-85735114973204462402010-01-11T16:45:05.961-05:002010-01-11T16:45:05.961-05:00great remindergreat reminderLaurihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01734353279885248086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7916782536472572714.post-91735227777403898442010-01-11T15:56:41.462-05:002010-01-11T15:56:41.462-05:00Thanks, Lisa. Somber, sobering, powerful and empo...Thanks, Lisa. Somber, sobering, powerful and empowering.~Dinahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07473448768301577048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7916782536472572714.post-37000455831915831752010-01-11T15:36:04.583-05:002010-01-11T15:36:04.583-05:00Wow, that PBS special really rattled my brain. Sho...Wow, that PBS special really rattled my brain. Showing that the levels of oxytocin did not change in the adopted Eastern European kids, as opposed to the "regular" kids who had a jump in oxytocin levels when being comforted, wow. NO change, that is unbelieveable. They don't feel love, safety or security AT ALL. With no potential interventions presented, except for essentially, teach the child how to fake like they love you and hope it sticks. <br />I researched oxytocin a bit and found this at good old wikipedia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin . <br />The connections in pregnancy, delivery, breast feeding etc along with a later massive deficiency in neglected children, leading to the inability to attach to trustworthy primary caretakers, well, like I said it is rattling my brain right now. <br />I am not going to hijack your comments any more! Going to take my brain and let it settle down some lol!The Accidental Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00409271721074309249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7916782536472572714.post-56823939595367522032010-01-11T14:03:58.652-05:002010-01-11T14:03:58.652-05:00I didn't know you were posting that video! I ...I didn't know you were posting that video! I always have to sit and cry all the way through it. So powerful.<br /><br />Today I'm struggling with following through on the consequences, even after Marah is regulated and relating again. That's when the Mom in my wants to just let it go ... and maybe even BUY her something! ha!<br /><br />Of course, that led to the moment of me saying, "But if I just let it go, that would not be good practice for functioning in the world." To which she said, "Yeah, and if someone robbed a bank, but then was very, very sorry, they wouldn't say, 'Okay. You're not in trouble!'"<br /><br />She was regulated out the whazoooo! How pitiful is it when SHE has to remind ME?!?Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07276000726366302069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7916782536472572714.post-43977231543515005102010-01-11T13:44:17.926-05:002010-01-11T13:44:17.926-05:00What a great video. It's an excellent reminder...What a great video. It's an excellent reminder of where our kiddos come from. Thanks for sharing!Shantihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16670894338491470873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7916782536472572714.post-46894175507536389102010-01-11T10:59:49.278-05:002010-01-11T10:59:49.278-05:00Yes, that is one priceless video. I used to watch...Yes, that is one priceless video. I used to watch it all the time to keep myself mindful. Haven't watched it all that much lately, so this was a great reminder. Like J, our P is doing so great but that doesn't mean that his hurts are gone. I think there may always be a scared, hurt, and hurting little guy inside him. And understandably so. Thanks for this!BThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11802465316673594087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7916782536472572714.post-16276654718468697562010-01-11T10:41:10.178-05:002010-01-11T10:41:10.178-05:00Hmm, I can't see the video? I tried it in two ...Hmm, I can't see the video? I tried it in two different browsers but it's not working for me. Stink!Shantihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16670894338491470873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7916782536472572714.post-92141336104755682242010-01-11T08:00:30.379-05:002010-01-11T08:00:30.379-05:00Watching this just makes the kids even more remark...Watching this just makes the kids even more remarkable. They are truly survivors. To quote my very favorite movie, "You are a hell of a lot more normal than you have any right to be." YA YA!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com